The Red Herring of Humility

I’m a quiet guy who never brags. 

Humble? Me? Absolutely.

 “In fact, I don’t talk about my achievements enough. I should brag more!” 

That’s what I told myself before I wisened up.

The “I don’t brag; therefore, I’m humble” form of humility is a red herring. And it prevents us from confronting deep humility. What’s deep humility? It’s the humility pointed at in one of my favorite Bible verses:

Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.

Zechariah 4:10

Know what’s ironic? This type of humility — deep humility — is most lacking in people abundant in the first type. People like me: book worms who never brag.

I claim, “I’m humble!” and then get stuck in perfectionism, setting impossibly high standards, and beating myself up when I don’t meet them.

Lacking humility? Nobody accuses me of that. Yet, a lack of humility was precisely the reason for my inner torment. 

So a while back, I dropped the red herring. I’ve come face-to-face with genuine humility — deep humility — and have embraced small beginnings.

Try it, and you’ll find lots of reasons to rejoice.

About the Author

Billy Broas

Billy is the founder of The Five Lightbulbs®.

He got into marketing his late 20's, when he left his career at an engineering company to run his online business. He’s consulted on messaging to top entrepreneurs, including Tiago Forte, Ryan Deiss, and Leila Gharani.

Billy lives in San Diego with his wife, their two children, and an abundance of tasty Mexican food.